As a strongly compersive person, I am excited and supportive of the search for another partner for Sir. It brings me joy that someone else can provide him additional joy and pleasure; I hope to become a close friend and supporter of whomever He chooses.
What I Want for Sir’s Relationships:
From Sir, I want time with me to be respected and not taken for granted. The draw of sparkly new relationship can be tempting to take time away from the old partner and given to the new partner. Time allotment and shared Google calendars will help. I promise to be gracious and understanding of time shifts. I want to avoid comparison; “Comparison is the thief of joy.” People are complex and have various levels of strengths and weaknesses, confidences and insecurities. Focusing on our strengths and how each individual contributes is the best way to maintain peace and harmony.
For Sir, I want Sir to experience the joy of connecting with someone else in ways that are compatible for them that I would not be a compatible fit for.
From my metamour, I seek someone who will happily provide those things Sir seeks. I am more obedience than service driven, so I would greatly appreciate someone who has a desire for providing service, such as secretarial tasks, blow jobs, cooking and attending to Him to make His life more joyful and pleasurable.
For my metamour, I want them to have a life that is pleasurable and joyful and free from fear or anxiety. I wish them to have their needs met and their interests respected. I want them to experience the joy that I feel and for us to all have a cohesive and harmonious existence.
To be very clear, I have no expectations of what the dynamic will look like when someone joins. The dynamic will shift from what it currently is and the goal and expectation is not to keep it as it is with just another body thrown in. Instead, the focus will be on finding a new rhythm that is aligned with the current goals and aspirations of the dynamic and we will work together to all find what that looks like and make it our shared goal to maintain a happy and joyful power exchange dynamic.
While I am flexible in my sexuality, it should also be clear that a relationship with me from whomever joins us is neither a prerequisite nor is it a deal-breaker. I am fluid in my attraction and I am open to becoming involved though it is not my expectation that I will be romantically involved. The baseline that I hope for is a close friend to support each other.
I want to avoid the expectation that we all must co-habitate, especially in the early stages. It takes time to build trust and comfort and it is difficult to identify the problem areas while still in the new relationship energy phase. Living separately at first allows the love and trust to build organically without feeling trapped and pressured.